Loving you was never good to me
But I can't get off
I walked in and he was even more handsome, even more muscular, and even more attractive than his pictures. He smile and as soon as he closed the door, he hugged me, and said, "i'm glad to finally meet you." He embraced me for a while, and as he embraced me I could smell his cologne. He then escorted me into his family room, where he was watching ESPN, catching up on the highlights of all the games he missed. He offered me something to drink, which I declined. I was already nervous.... I uttered "nice place you got here" and he responded, "oh this is nothing." you should have seen our home in Miami. I quietly nodded and said well excuse me Mr. Big Time. we both laughed and smiled.
I sat on a couch adjacent to the chair he was sitting in, but as he kept staring at me, I saw his bulge though his gym shorts standing up. He then stood up and walked over to me and started to kiss me. Kissing has always been my number one turn on. I mean I can kiss so passionately and receive more satisfaction from that then actually fucking...i know weird isn't it. Well one thing led to another and 3 hours later, we were laying beside each other, staring. I mean he ate my ass so many times that I lost count....LOL Mario is the kind of lover that anyone would die for. He is passionate and always makes sure during sex that I was being pleased.I was really feeling this dude, and not just from the sex, but from the conversations we had. He even told me he thinks there was mutual attraction and affection there and we could evolve into being life long friends.
After that, we texted and texted each other and he asked me to come back down to have lunch with him, but the tone and nature of his texts had somewhat changed.. No more references to the deep sexual attraction that we both had, or how cute he thought I was. The conversation seemed to have changed. ....Well on Monday, I went down again to have lunch with him, and he told me a few days beforehand that he was off on Monday, so maybe we could meet again for another hot encounter. But when Monday came, he said he had to go into the office and was not off, and that the lunch would have to be rushed. Cool no problem, I will just plan to do some other things and see a few friends while I'm in the area.
Lunch was awkward, and it was painful... Mario often drifted off somewhere else, and I had to make an exhaustive effort to continue to keep to the conversation going. He finally said, "I think we should be just friends." You are such a good person, that I don't want either of us to get hurt. I value your friendship more than I do your body, so I think we should slow down." INTERPRETATION: I just wanted a one time no strings attached encounter, and I'm a fucking low life who was too scared to say that.
Hence the emotional roller coaster... I had genuinely opened up my heart to this guy thinking that he was genuinely feeling this new friendship but i was completely naive. I've been here before, and I realize that when you're in the down low lifestyle, it is hard to establish a true solid connection with guys because of fear, or whatever. Most times guys who are married or living down low, will use whatever they can to get the sex and move on. Well I'm getting off of the emotional roller coaster....I think I've lived long enough, learned enough, and loved enough to know when someone is genuinely into me and when they are just looking to bust a nut.
I received a text from him today saying "What's up sexy?? I'm coming to your city for a few days on business. I guess we can continue part 2"
My response: "Uh... no thanks, I'm reconsidering my priorities in life, and you didn't make the cut. I realize I was just a convenient sex hookup, which is cool, just would have appreciated knowing that."
His response: "Well I started acting differently because I like you and didn't want you to get hurt. i was falling in love with the thought of us" (more bullshit, of course)
My response: "thanks man, but i think I'd rather just move on. Wish you the best."
Exactly what I'm talking about Emotional Roller coaster... well thanks for the ride (no pun intended) but I'm getting off (again no pun intended). I realize now that I have some things related to the rejection issues I've faced when growing up, and so instead of going on an emotional ride. I'd much rather be in control of the twists and turns that I go on.